How to Apologize to a Scorpio Man?
The vengeful heart of a man born under the Scorpio Zodiac sign can appear frightening to many. And they should be scared of it. But what we often forget is that Scorpios also hide a very benevolent heart beneath all that fear that they instill. I can understand if you are worried about being in the bad book of the Scorpio man in your life. And let me warn you that you need to be on the lookout for his revenge plan. However, prevention is always better than cure. So, why not try and pacify him before he makes you regret being born? The best way to do that is to tender a sincere and heartfelt apology. But he's so angry that he won't even listen to you, right?
This is why I am here to help you figure out how to apologize to a Scorpio man!
How to make a Scorpio man forgive you?
Let's start with the most basic and pressing skill here. Getting the Scorpio man to forgive you. It all starts like all good apology efforts should, by understanding why he is upset. It might be unclear to you as to what exactly caused the hurt. Or he might be pouting over a trivial issue. But the fact of the matter is this: regardless of what you feel, he is hurt. And the least you can do is try to understand why that is.
The next step is to acknowledge his feelings and the hurt caused by you. You need to come across as genuinely apologetic. This can only be done if it is made clear to the Scorpio male that you are aware of your actions. Only then can you make any credible efforts at righting your wrongs.
Compromise with his unrealistic needs. I know that he will be very unapproachable. And the things he will ask of you will be too much. And I don't support giving in entirely. However, it will do you good to compromise a little.
Don't treat him like a child. It would be absolutely counterproductive to an attempt to pacify him. Instead, you will be back to square one or worse off.
Choose your words carefully. Get a romance novelist to write your apology and then have a lawyer proofread it. You do not want to say the wrong things to this man.
How do Scorpios act when hurt?
Knowing how to apologize is great. But how will you apply these skills if you don't even know if he is hurt? To help you sniff out the damage before it blows up, here are a few telltale signs of a Scorpio who is upset.
His behavior would change. This much you will be able to figure out. He will be more closed off and be a little cold. No more Mr Nice Guy.
It might even feel like he's trying to pick up fights. He's angry and needs to vent it out. But can't because he doesn't rage like an animal. Sometimes that desire will overcome him and he will be on the verge of lashing out. These are the moments that you would notice.
The Scorpio guy will start ignoring you. Out of fear of lashing out, he will find it better to ignore you instead. You will find him spending time with his friends more and more.
And when he does spend time with you, he will be hurtfully cocky. His words will be cutting and the way he will trap you will be genius. His compassionate, kind words will soon turn into cutting remarks.
Do Scorpios ever apologize?
Let's turn the tables now. Many times, it would so happen that it would be your Scorpio man who would be in the wrong. So, will he act the same way as he expects you to? Will he apologize too? Well, here's the thing.
He won't apologize. The Scorpio men will die before apologizing for their behavior. Because apologizing means accepting that he is wrong. And that he can never be.
Usually, Scorpio males will get out of any situation with their wit. So, it will never get to the point where they will have to apologize. Waiting for a Scorpio man to apologize will be a really long wait. In fact, it is futile to make him do it.
Instead, the goal should be to ensure that he understands where he went wrong. You can do that by first of all ensuring that you don't disregard his efforts at reconciliation. When he does, make sure that you try to make him understand your feelings.
And don't give in till you are satisfied that he knows where he went wrong. From what I know of Scorpio men, they rarely repeat the mistakes that they have been made aware of. But again, you need to be able to play him. And not the other way around.
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For nearly 15 years now, I have been writing about the mysteries of the zodiac signs, their characteristics and personality traits, their compatibility, their relationships and their passionate loves, with all the beauty but also all the complexity this can entail.