Aries Man and Scorpio Woman: Love Compatibility?
It's quite difficult to imagine the Aries and the Scorpio in love. They are never on the same turf. Neither can live where the other thrives. And yet, when you see this couple together, you will never be able to guess their sun signs. It's amazing how astrology works. You read about two Zodiac signs, individually, and think, "Boy! These two can never get along." And then you see them in real life and realize just how compatible they are. Sure, there are ups and downs along the way. Some compromises need to be made on both sides. But when has that ever-stopped true love from flourishing?
Want to know more about the love compatibility between the Aries man and the Scorpio woman? Here is everything you need to know and a few secrets from astrology I'm going to share with you!
Love and Relationship between the Aries man and the Scorpio woman
For the Scorpio woman and Aries man, love, at first sight, is not a thing. It is quite possible for them to not like each other at all. But they share a 6-8 Sun Sign pattern.
Which means that they will be powerfully intrigued by each other’s personalities. They cannot ignore each other that is for sure. And if they find each other in the right situation they will fall in love.
There is also an innate desire to help each other in the combinations of 6-8. There might be times when these favors are resented. But you can be certain that they are almost always paid back. And when taken positively, these lead to some beautiful relationships.
The Ram sees the Scorpio’s dangerous disposition as a challenge. A challenge that excites him to take action. And oftentimes he will screw things up for himself while taking this action.
But given enough time, he will learn not to push ahead immediately with her. However, a little time is never enough for the Aries to learn something. It is in his nature not to play in the offense. He is a defense player but she is the opposite. That can lead to trouble some times.
But even though the Scorpio lady is selfish, she will be intensely loyal to him. And he will be to her. That is the one thing that they care about the most. The man he loves will be her priority over everything. She will not tolerate anything that threatens their relationship.
Scorpio Woman and Aries Man Initial Attraction
Like I said earlier, love, at first sight, might not be possible between them. However, the Aries man and Scorpio woman experience a wild sort of attraction towards each other. That might make you ask, "Why are Aries attracted to Scorpios?".
Well, he is attracted to her intangible, indefinable aura of will power. Let’s not forget that the Aries male doesn’t want to be with a damsel in distress. Sure, he likes to be the knight in shining armor. But for a woman who doesn’t easily need help. Therefore, her strength and will power, are very attractive to him.
It is easy for the Scorpio female to fall for the Aries male charm. If you know an Aries man, you are probably thinking: "What charm?". Well, the Aries is not in front of strangers what they are around their mates. So, you have no idea how irresistible he can be when he is dressed to impress.
In the beginning, she will be the shy, polite, and graceful lady that all of us know. If you are an Aries male, reading this post, you will find the revelations here quite surprising. Not saying that the Scorpio female isn't all that. But she also can surprise when you least expect it.
The Aries man needs to be aware of her tendency for secret revolts. The knowledge of being stung when you least expect it prepares him in a certain way. You will realize how helpful this can be.
Despite all that he will be the knight in shining armor whom she was waiting for. Never make her feel that she needs him. But always being there when she does. And that will never change till they are together. Maybe even after that though.
Relationship problems between the Scorpio woman and the Aries man
Let’s get to the part we dread to read. And I shall cut right to the chase. There will be fights between them. She doesn’t take slight very easily, but she does. And he isn’t half bad at slighting people either. More importantly, she won’t rest till she has her revenge.
The Scorpio woman’s inexplicable surges of angry revenge can infuriate him. She won't go into a rage and send things flying around. That the Aries man can handle. She will strike hard and in the fiercest ways possible. All while acting as nothing has happened.
He will be driven made by her retaliation that is the result of premeditation unknown to him. She puts on a calm face as nothing happens. No sooner does he turn his head, are his clothes on fire.
Her cool detachment following her revenge act infuriates him even further. She completely ignores his display of anger. Refuses to respond to his appeals and demands for clarification. And thus, brews the perfect recipe for losing him. The Aries man isn’t without blame either.
The blunt honesty of an Aries, man or woman, often gets them in trouble. If he just starts being more empathetic towards her, then she will have no reason to be angry. Just one step from him can break the offense-defense cycle.
Worst of all, she cannot forgive being badly loved, in or out of the bedroom. She isn’t above denying him sexual oneness as a revenge tactic. But must realize that one bad move and his insecurities will kick in. Things might never be able to get back to normal after that.
Aries man and Scorpio woman in bed
The sexual attraction is instant and magnetic and can be permanently fulfilling. This is the thing about the Aries zodiac sign. It is one of the most virile signs and is sexually compatible with even the signs it is not compatible with love. But with the Scorpio female, he gets his passion back with the right intensity he needs.
Their sexual relationship is never indifferent or casual. Both are passionate lovers who give their all to the person they make love to. Both belief in lovemaking and not just the physical satisfaction of the body.
He must conquer sexually, and she will allow him to do it. And by doing that she will find in him the most sensitive lover. Probably the best she will ever meet. One, who gives more than he gets. But only until he gets what he wants.
She will meet him halfway when it comes to erotic expression. Nothing describes this better than this quote by Linda Goodman, “Her intense response to his lovemaking blended with her willingness to submit to him physically, represents the ultimate in the ecstatic union to this man, who seeks a real woman, never a quiescent partner…".
Is a wedding between an Aries man and a Scorpio woman a good idea?
It might sound like a bad idea to get married. If there will be fights, then what’s the point of continuing this relationship. However, conflict is the only way powerful enough to keep their relationship on an equal basis. Both the Scorpio female and the Aries male need to be the stronger one. If they can't get that, they at least have to be equal to their partner.
He probably will not see these revenge tactics in action until after they get married. And the realization can be difficult for him. But he should always remind himself that she is as loyal to him, as she is about not letting him walk all over her.
The only way to handle her is to not lose his self-control. The Aries man is competent and courageous when he understands the situation. But when he doesn’t, that’s when he can be irrational and immature.
He needs to be loved all the way or not at all. In her, he will find a woman who can give him that kind of devotion. I think Linda Goodman’s words can better explain this, “Although loving and living with the Scorpio woman may be a little bumpy, it will mellow the Ram’s fiery personality and open his eyes to his Martian faults of selfishness, rashness and impulsive speech.”. If they love each other, there is much that they can teach each other. The essential difference between them can only be overcome by mutual trust and forgiveness.
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For nearly 15 years now, I have been writing about the mysteries of the zodiac signs, their characteristics and personality traits, their compatibility, their relationships and their passionate loves, with all the beauty but also all the complexity this can entail.