How to Get an Aquarius Man Back and Keep Him Hooked?
You are not the first ex-girlfriend of an Aquarius man who wants to get back with him. They have a charm, these Aquarius men. You probably couldn't tolerate him when you decided to break up. And now he has left a hole in your heart now that he's gone. And if he was the one who broke up with you then that only makes matters worse. And you know how hard it is to attract the Aquarius male the first time. Doing it all over again can be exhausting. But I can understand your need to get back with this man.
Astrology can help us unlock the secrets of his personality. Here is all you need to know to win back the heart of an Aquarius man and keep him hooked!
Will an Aquarius man come back after a breakup?
So, should you embark on this quest to win him back? This is a very legitimate question for you to ask yourself. Because the road ahead is long and hard. But will your efforts pay off?
There is a slim chance that he will come back after a breakup. If he broke up with you then he has already moved on. And if you broke up with him then the feeling of betrayal is enough to keep him away from reconciliation. This happens because of a lot of reasons.
For starters, the Aquarius man cannot get over a feeling of betrayal. He will still remember the one time his sister got away with stealing his candy. Do you think he will forget a broken heart? You might feel that you were the one who was betrayed. But that won’t change how he feels.
He’s not very forgiving either. If the breakup was messy then the probability of reconciliation is close to zero. He doesn't forget and he doesn't forgive. In this case, it is best that you give up on trying to get back together. Unless he is the one who shows an interest.
Patch up depends on how he felt about you when you were together. It doesn’t matter how much in love you were with him. If he wasn’t sure about you, the chances of him coming back to you are very slim. Did it feel like he loved you like no other? Then you should try.
How to get an Aquarius man back after a breakup?
If you feel like there’s a chance, he will come back then go for it. Here are 5 steps that will help you get the Aquarius man back.
Stimulate his mind when you converse with him. You need to be able to attract the Aquarius male to yourself. And for that, nothing works better than a stimulating conversation. No, you don’t need to be a rocket scientist to get his attention. Even a philosophical discussion will intrigue this man.
Spontaneity will help you go a long way. The men born under the Aquarius Zodiac sign like adventures. This is why they get along so well with Aries women. And if you want to bring him back you need to inculcate this quality too. If the two of you are out for lunch, take him somewhere, to a special place he doesn't know.
Keep the emotional drama out of the equation. He doesn’t need to be reminded of the hurt that the breakup caused you. Or to get involved in the latest drama of your friends’ circle. He will never go back to an ex-girlfriend who is all drama. You have to come off as cool and awesome.
Stay in the present. Don’t burden him with the future. If there’s one thing that the Aquarius men hate, it is planning for and worrying about the future. This rule doesn’t apply to their romantic life. But in all aspects.
Show interest in his hobbies and passion. The best way to get his attention is to show interest in what he likes. Talk about issues that he’s passionate about. Plan adventures that you know he loves to undertake. If he feels happy when you are around, he is sure to come back.
How to know if an Aquarius man is done with you?
Under no circumstance will the Aquarius guy come back if he has moved on. What is it like with the Aquarius man when it’s over? Here are some signs that an Aquarius man is over you.
No matter how hard you try, he won’t spend time with you. To the Aquarius male, every second should be fun. And if there’s someone he doesn’t enjoy spending time with, he would avoid them. Even if you are together now, you should be concerned if he avoids you.
He won’t respond to your flirtations. The Aquarius male might look like a man who has weak will power. but if he's not interested in someone, no one has a stronger resolve. No matter how much you try to seduce him, he just won't respond.
In fact, if the breakup was bitter, he won’t even talk to you. That’s the length he would go to, to avoid the person who broke his heart. Or the person he just can’t stand anymore. If the situation has worsened to this extent, then you will have to take some very desperate measure.
His mood will be visibly bitter when you are around. The Aquarius men aren’t very pleasant when they are around a woman who had betrayed them. You will be able to see how he feels about you. Even your presence will sour his mood. From this point on, there will be no turning back for you.
He will reveal his feelings. the Aquarius man cannot keep his annoyance in for very long. Sooner or later he will tell you how he feels. If you are in a relationship, he will break up. If you are trying to get him back, he will let you know if it's not going to work.
How to keep an Aquarius man hooked?
It is extremely difficult to keep the Aquarius man’s attention. Any woman who wishes to stay with this man will have to be on her toes all the time. So, here’s how to get an Aquarius man to chase you.
Make him aware of your uniqueness. The Aquarius guy will never settle for what’s commonly available. He needs to feel that he has what no one else does. Stand out from the crowd and make his individuality known.
Always engage him in stimulating conversations. A major part of keeping the Aquarius man interested in having conversations that keep him engaged. Talk about what interests him. Read up on things that he is passionate about.
But more importantly, play it cool. Desperation reeks badly. Especially if you are trying to make an Aquarius man obsessed with you. Don't let him feel like your entire existence revolves around him.
The best way to do that is to make him work to keep you happy. Nothing is more exciting to the Aquarius male than a challenge. If he feels like he doesn’t need to work to keep you, he will start taking you for granted.
Be friends first, and lovers next. The Aquarius men are looking for a friend in their partner. It is extremely important that he always feels that comfort of friendship around you.
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For nearly 15 years now, I have been writing about the mysteries of the zodiac signs, their characteristics and personality traits, their compatibility, their relationships and their passionate loves, with all the beauty but also all the complexity this can entail.