How to Get a Cancer Man Back and Keep Him Hooked?
Breaking up with a Cancer man has got to be hard. I know what an amazing boyfriend he must be. The Cancer male is that romantic whom all of us dream of. But now that you are apart, feeling to tug to get back is natural. But before you do, there are a lot of things that you need to know about. Like, will the Cancer man get back after a breakup? And how do you save your relationship from falling apart? Yet again, astrology is here to save the day.
You need to know the secrets to his heart to be able to attract this man back. So, whether he broke up with you or you with him. We have the intel everyone needs. Here’s all the advice you need to get your Cancer man back and keep him hooked.
Will the Cancer Man Come Back After a Break-Up?
It is difficult to predict how the Cancer man will react after a breakup. More often than not, the Cancer man doesn’t come back after a breakup. Only if a Cancer man was deeply in love. Or broke up one a mood swing will he be coming back to you. But don’t give up hope. Love works in mysterious ways. Before you embark upon your adventure, here are some things you need to know.
He breaks up only if there has been a strong emotional hurt. It takes a very serious issue for a Cancer male to go through with a breakup. Once it has happened, he takes a long time going back to the woman he once loved.
You will have to court him like it’s a new relationship. Referring to or bringing up anything about the past will send him flying. You will have to try new tactics too. Anything that reminds him of the past will not work.
A Cancer man’s mood swings play a big role in coming back to his ex. You will have to strike when his mood is good. If you catch him on a bad day, that will only make things worse for you. If you've dated him, so, you should be able to guess what's to come.
It takes a long time for a Cancer guy to get over a broken heart. In that time, he would be very bitter with you. Betrayal and rejection are not something the Cancer male take easily.
It will be very hard and very tiresome to get the Cancer man back. But you know, as well as I do, that it’s all worth it.
How Do You Know When a Cancer Man is Over You?
Now I will be honest with you. If the Cancer man is over you, all your efforts will be futile. Because once he moves on, he does so for good. It would be best if you apply your tactics elsewhere after that point. So, how do you know when a Cancer male is done with you? Here are some signs.
He doesn’t talk about you with his friends. the people born under this zodiac sign hold their friends very dear. When they have feelings for someone, they discuss it with their loved ones. If he isn’t talking about you anymore, it means he doesn’t feel the same way now.
His tone is very casual. The Cancer man has the ability to go back to treating their ex like everyone else. So, if when talking to you it feels like he’s treating you like everyone else, that indicates his moving on.
He isn’t interested in hanging out with you anymore. A Cancer guy will never pass on the opportunity of spending time with someone he has feelings for. But if that someone is nothing to him, then he will refuse to waste his time.
He doesn’t respond to your flirtation. The Cancer male becomes immune to all charms of the woman he has fallen out of love with. So, what once used to tickle his fantasies will now illicit no response.
He doesn’t get emotionally involved in any way. He is known to give emotional support to everyone around him. But even if you cry, you will only get a general response from him. The Cancer guy prefers to stay away from any of his ex-girlfriend’s emotional issues.
How to Get a Cancer Man Back?
If you have decided to embark on this arduous journey, I’m here to help. Before we begin, I again want to remind you of this. Getting the Cancer man back is a long and tiresome journey.
It takes a lot of patience to get the Cancer man back. There will be times when it would seem like he doesn’t care at all. Or that he hates you too much to even consider getting back together. But you will have to work through all of that to reap the rewards.
Begin by taking ownership if you were at fault. If the two of you had broken up because of something you did, then man up. Man up, and admit to your wrongdoing. However, if he was the one in the wrong, you don’t have to take the blame for anything.
Tell him how you still feel. It is important that from the start you are clear about your feelings. Not just the feeling of love but even the complains that you might have. But do so in a comfortable setting. Take him out to dinner and bring this up over a glass of wine.
Bring happy memories into play with subtlety. If you refer to the good times when he’s around, it will remind him of the bad times too. Instead, make them the backdrop of things. Like taking him to the restaurant you went to on your first date. He remembers things like these. It will register in this memory.
Re-establish a friendship. You will have to do it from the top. This means that before trying to get him involved romantically, you will have to get his friendship back. This gives you an opportunity for a fresh start. And him a chance to forget.
How to keep a Cancer man hooked and interested in you?
Now that you’ve got him, how do you keep him? It is very important to be consistent with the Cancer man. Because if you slack for too long and he’ll be off with someone else.
Start by giving him special attention all the time. The Cancer men have this compulsive need to being treated special. Maybe it’s because their mothers have always loved them the most. So, they project the same expectations on their spouses.
Become the person who he can trust with his life. The men born under the Cancer zodiac sign are known to have trust issues. If he feels that he won’t find someone so trustworthy again, he will think 10 times before leaving.
Never ever ignore him. You should always be there to cater to his needs. He needs your love and attention. A Cancer man in love is a lot like a baby. Maybe even more than the Aries man is.
He doesn't forgive easily. So, if he has forgiven you once, try not to be on his bad side again. He might never be able to forgive you the next time. And when you have given him this, you know he will reciprocate it back. With even more intensity than you.
Author and Astrologer
For nearly 15 years now, I have been writing about the mysteries of the zodiac signs, their characteristics and personality traits, their compatibility, their relationships and their passionate loves, with all the beauty but also all the complexity this can entail.