How to Get a Gemini Man Back and Keep Him Hooked?
Breakups are hard. Moving on is harder. And sometimes you know you have lost a perfect partner. But whatever your story may be, love always deserves a second chance. It isn't uncommon to want a Gemini ex-boyfriend back. They have this charisma and personality that leaves an everlasting impression. But winning him back is a tough job. A job that you will have to commit to if you want to achieve what you set out to. And this doesn't end at getting him back. You will have to keep him hooked to avoid another breakup.
So, want to know how you can get your Gemini man back? Here are some tips and tricks that will help you win his heart back!
Does the Gemini man come back after a breakup?
There are some zodiac signs that never turn back to a past relationship. So, it is important to know if it will be worth trying to get the Gemini male back? The simple answer to this is Yes. It is possible to get a Gemini man back after a breakup. But you have to understand the dynamics of this situation. A lot of his behavior post-breakup will have to do with who broke up with whom.
He will always be in a dual mind if he broke up with you. One moment he would regret breaking up. The next he will pat himself on the back for doing it.
He will fill you up with the hope of reconciliation only to shatter it. If the Gemini man broke up with you then you have to be very careful. Don’t let his internal bipolarity affect your life. Never get your hopes up till you actually have him back. NEVER!
It will be easier to get him back if you broke up with him. For quite sometime after the breakup, the Gemini man lives in melancholy. He will cry about you to his friends. Maybe even lash out about the breakup to them. But if you can get him back during this period that will be the easiest.
Once the Gemini man has moved on, it will be very hard to get him back. It takes a really long time for the Gemini guy to get over being dumped. But the result is very effective. You will probably never get him back once he’s finally over you for good.
How to make a Gemini man want you back?
Now that you know the prospects, let's see what is the best way to get a Gemini man back. It starts by having what he lacks: stability.
You have to be emotionally stable to be able to get him back. Scenes of passionate emotions are only going to make his resolve to stay away stronger. You need to come across as someone who has their shit together. This means no continuous reminiscing of the old times. And absolutely no breaking down in from of him.
He shouldn’t feel like he’s the top priority in your life. Gemini men can easily mistake love for slavery. If he feels like he has you in his palm, he will never come back. He needs to know that he lost a place in your heart that he will have to win back.
Reinvent yourself. You cannot attract the Gemini guy by giving him the same old dish to taste. He needs to be intrigued. Show a sexier, more fun and exciting side of yourself. Something he never saw before.
Staying optimistic around him is very important. He should only get positive energies from you. This means no sharing of your personal problems. If you are in a bad place in life right now then you can’t juggle getting him back. Don’t expect him to be there for you like he was when you were together.
Make subtle references to wanting to get back together. It is important that you communicate to him that you want to get back. But don’t do it in a manner that makes him feel like he has you at his mercy. Casually drop happy moments from your dating life together in conversations. Finally, how long does it take for a Gemini man to come back? Well, it depends on who broke up with whom. If he broke up with you, he will make you wait before he comes back. If not, then the wait won't be very long.
How to tell if a Gemini man has lost interest?
You might think you don’t need advice on that. You are still with your Gemini man. But if he’s losing interest, you will have to act fast. Better to be safe, right? So, how can you tell if you Gemini male is losing interest in you? Here are a few signs to look out for.
He's always in low spirits and dulls when you are around. When the Gemini guy is around someone who doesn’t interest him any longer it affects his spirits. Does it seem like he’s happier when he’s with his friends than with you? it’s a sign for you to act fast. He will make his displeasure known. The Gemini man doesn’t know how to be subtle about his feelings. Especially the bad ones. If he has lost interest you will find him complaining all the time. He will frequently talk about how he feels trapped in this relationship. Don’t take these complains lightly.
Is he pushing you away? The Gemini man will stop opening up if he has lost interest. He won’t update you about what’s going on. If you try to inquire, he’ll wave you off with a half-assed answer.
He will be rude and disrespectful. He might not be rude to people he doesn’t like. But if he’s in a relationship he doesn’t want to be in anymore, the displeasure will make him angry. He will take out this anger by being mean and rude to you. Don’t bear with behavior like that.
He might cheat on you too. The Gemini zodiac sign is most likely to cheat on their partner. And if he isn’t interested in the relationship any longer, this is more likely to happen. Now, you’ve got to decide if you want to give this man a second chance.
How to keep a Gemini man hooked?
So, if he’s losing interest how do you keep him hooked? Here are some ways in which you can reignite the Gemini man’s love for you. Or can keep him hooked once you’ve got him back.
A witty sense of humour will keep him engaged. If you are good at making people laugh, use it to save your relationship. If you are not very talented at that then you can always appreciate his witty humour.
Don’t break down and be brave. You cannot let him see that you are scared. Or worried that you might lose him. You have to project confidence and strength. He will respect you for that.
Be a little mysterious. Maybe he knows everything about you. But there was a time when you two were apart. Build a mysterious adventure from that. Let him feel like he’s got a lot to explore the mystery that you are.
Finally, give him space and create some for yourself too. You will have to let him feel free. At the same time live a life that is independent of him. He needs to know that you are not tied to him.
Author and Astrologer
For nearly 15 years now, I have been writing about the mysteries of the zodiac signs, their characteristics and personality traits, their compatibility, their relationships and their passionate loves, with all the beauty but also all the complexity this can entail.