How to Get a Libra Man Back and Keep Him Hooked?
The Libra zodiac sign is ruled by the planet Venus. Venus, the planet of love and sex. So, I can sympathize with you if breaking up with him has been hard. If it feels right to get back with him go for it. But before you go ahead with it there is a lot that you need to know. Here is a man who has a very hard time making decisions. When he finally does, he doesn’t go back on them. So, is there still a chance that he will come back? Does love triumph over the decision? How do you get the Libra man back after a breakup? And how do you keep him hooked once you do?
Fortunately, astrology has a few secrets to reveal about the personality and psychology of Libra men that I'm going to share with you.
Will a Libra man come back after a breakup?
I will not beat around the bush because there is so much to discuss on this. Yes, it is possible to get the Libra man back after a breakup. He is a believer of love and second chances. If he got into a relationship once, he wouldn’t shy away from going back for it again. But this doesn’t mean it would be easy to do that.
If he broke up with you after strong deliberation then it would be impossible to get him back. The Libra male has a hard time making tough decisions. So, if he thought a great deal about the breakup before going through with it. This will become difficult for you.
There’s also an element of betrayal you will have to address. The Libra male is a believer of endless love. And breakup shatters that myth. You will have to build this trust in yourself again. This will be a long process.
His sense of judgement is also something you will have to tackle. The Libra male believes in taking fair decisions and doing fair judgement. So, if he feels like the breakup was the just move, he will stick to it. And it will become very difficult to talk him out of it. But what triumphs over all of this is love.
Your love for him will be the strongest weapon against all hesitation. Because once he realizes how deeply in love you are with him, he will reconsider. You just need to know how to play this one right.
How to win a Libra man back?
If you have dated him before and managed to seduce him, you know what he likes and how he reacts.
A lot of getting the Libra man back has to do with playing on his interests. He is a huge supporter of finding common interests. And a woman who can use that to her advantage will go a long way. So, here’s what you’ve got to do.
Your conversations about getting back together should be like debates. The Libra guy will never pass on the chance of a good debate. So, why not make it interesting and use it to your advantage. Negotiate to get a second chance with him. Present him with the pros and cons of the situation. And make sure you make the best case.
Shower him with compliments. Much like the Leo man, the Libra male likes to be appreciated. If you are trying to get him back, you will have to come across as an admirer. Praise his intellect. Ask for his advice. Just the usual.
You will have to be the one to take the initiative. Even if you were the one to break up, you will have to initiate reconciliation. Because if you left him, he will see it as an unfair thing to push himself on you. And if he broke up with you then he would stick to his decision.
Show commitment to making the relationship better and make promises. If you are going to negotiate, you should have something to back it up. Do so by making sure he knows you are serious. This means no flirting around. Taking care of his emotional needs and emotions before taking any action. And only make promises that you know you can keep.
Make new memories. You will have to add a new element to get over the hurt in the past. Do so by planning new adventures. Whether they are between the two of you or in a group. Adding some spice to the relationship always helps.
How to know when a Libra man is done with you?
It is a sad thing when a Libra man has moved on. This means that you need to up your game to bring him back. But first, let’s look at some signs in his behavior which indicate that the Libra male has lost interest.
The communication becomes very weak. A Libra guy who grows distant from his lady love isn't very involved with the interaction. He seldom responds to your texts. And rarely initiates a conversation. Remember how he used to text every hour back when he was courting you?
A Libra male who is falling out of love doesn’t even care enough to deliberate justice. Being just and fair is his thing. But these days he doesn’t even care to apologize when he’s wrong. Is that right? That is a Libra man who is losing interest in you.
He ignores you. While once he never did anything without thinking of you. Now he is making plans and doesn't even bother asking if you will come. He is always busy when you make plans to hang out. And you can tell that things have changed.
He starts flirting around. For all his advocation of justice, he is, after all, a man. And when you have a man ruled by Venus, you know that he can’t stay out of the game for long. Your once loyal Libra will now be seen surrounded by other women.
How to keep the Libra man hooked?
Have you seen these signs of disinterest in your Libra man? It must make you wonder; how do you make your Libra man fall in love with you again? How to keep the interest of a Libra man? Here are the answers to all your questions.
Start by giving him his space. If you become too clingy it will overwhelm his senses. It is very easy to overwhelm the Libra man. He has so much going on in his head as it is.
Bring some exquisite taste in your lifestyle. The Libra male has a knack for all things stylish. He loves to be surrounded by beautiful and exquisite things. You give him that and make him feel like a star. He is sure to fall your way.
Show him your confident and independent side. The Libra man isn’t looking for a damsel in distress whom he can rescue. He needs a woman who he can rely on. A partner through thick and thin. Let him know that you are the one.
Always give him the respect he needs. Your admiration for him shouldn’t come across as mindless fanaticism. He needs to be sure that he has the qualities which make you respect him. And in line of that, don’t toe the line between constructive criticism and disrespect.
Have a life of your own. Not only is it important for you to give him space. You should build yours too. Don’t let it look like your life is tied to his. That is too much pressure for him. Give him something he can be interested in too.
Author and Astrologer
For nearly 15 years now, I have been writing about the mysteries of the zodiac signs, their characteristics and personality traits, their compatibility, their relationships and their passionate loves, with all the beauty but also all the complexity this can entail.