How to Get a Virgo Man Back and Keep Him Hooked?
The strong and reserved Virgo man can be intimidating. Especially, after a separation. I have seen so many of my friends who believe that their Virgo ex-boyfriends don't even want to see them. But as a friend to three Virgo men, I can tell you the situation is all but different. Even if they break up with their girlfriends, there is always a strong residual feeling of love in them. It can be said that they break up too early for their own good.
Does the Virgo man come back after a breakup? If yes, how do you get him back? And how to make him stay once you won his heart again? Here's all you need to know to get a Virgo man back and keep him hooked!
Will the Virgo Man Broke Up with Me: Will He Come Back?
Like I said in the beginning. It is difficult to know what a Virgo man wants after a breakup. So, it is only natural to ask, do Virgos go back to their ex? But, if you follow the advice of Astrology, you will be able to understand it better.
Whether he will come back or not depends on the circumstances of the breakup. The Virgo man is a good analyst. No matter who broke up with whom, if he’s convinced it was the right thing to do, he won’t walk back on it. But if the Virgo man feels like the relationship ended wrongfully, then he will be interested in making amends.
He has a strong resolve which makes him stick to his guns. This makes it very difficult to get him back. Difficult for someone who doesn’t understand him. You have to know what he thinks like and what he expects.
He is a forgiving man who is willing to give second chances. Unlike a lot of the other zodiac signs, he doesn’t shy away from forgiveness. But you need to be deserving of that forgiveness. This means working in the right direction.
He will only come back if he sees the possibility of change. The rational Virgo man knows that if a relationship fell apart once, it can do so again. So, only when he sees a strong possibility of change, does he come back.
How to Get a Virgo Man Back?
Now, how do you develop this understanding that helps you get him back and win his heart again? How do you know when a Virgo man wants you back? Here are some tips and tricks that will help you get to that point. If he broke up with you then you need to understand why that happened.
Get him to talk about what went wrong. Again, don’t push this one him. Don’t force him to speak up. Bring this up in a casual conversation. If he doesn’t seem interested to talk about it, then drop the subject for the moment. You can pick it up later one. Which brings up to the second point.
Don’t force him to get back with you. Too much pleading can also come across as being forced to the Virgo male. Your approach should be one to revive a lost friendship. Not a lost relationship. Make him feel like you are in it for the bond and not the love.
Make him comfortable in your presence. You will get nowhere with this man if he feels awkward around you. Do this by not referring to your past relationship often. Talk to him about his interests. Court him like you are trying to attract him.
You will have to play on his jealousy. The Virgo guy is the one man who will come back to you if you make him jealous. Sure, it won’t make him come running into your arms. But you will get his attention. Make it look like you have moved on.
Make sure you don’t get too emotional around him. He cannot know that you are a mess because of the breakup. It is not something he would want to deal with. You have to come across as a rational, open-minded individual.
How to Know When a Virgo Man is Done with You?
All your efforts to get your Virgo man back in your life will go vain if he has moved on. Then there will also be a situation where he might be losing interest in the relationship. How do you tell if the battle is lost? Here are a few signs to help you figure out if he still has feelings for you.
He is not giving you any special treatment anymore. The Virgo guy always treats his lady love like a goddess. To him she is perfect. And everything he does, he does to make her happy. But that will change if the Virgo man has lost interest.
He’s making no effort to stay in touch. If the Virgo male has started to become detached, you have cause to worry. This means that he won't text or call. He wouldn't even respond to your texts at all. The Virgo man is generally bad at texting, but this is very serious ignoring.
He is always finding faults in you. Remember the time when you were perfect for him? Well, if that's in the past then so is his love for you. the Virgo man can be very critical of everyone around him. And the woman who doesn't have his heart anymore will feel the same.
You will always see him weighing the pros and cons of your relationship. The Virgo male enters analysis mode when he’s about to end things. Or when he has moved on. You will see him complaining more than compromising. This doesn’t happen if he still has feelings. Because that is the one thing, he will be sure of.
He will let you know if he isn’t feeling it anymore. After the analysis is complete, he doesn’t hold back the results. The Virgo man is quick to move out once he has made up his mind. Sometimes that is what builds all the doubt in his mind.
How to keep a Virgo man interested in you?
If you’ve got him, you need to know how to keep him. Here’s all you need to know on how to make a Virgo man obsessed with you.
The first thing you have to be is patient. Getting anxious and agitated around him won’t help. You need to give him his space and time. This comfortable situation will make him second guess on whether to leave you or not.
Don’t be present at his beck and call. The Virgo man has to know that he needs to give to get. This means that you will have to make him wait. You don’t have to drop whatever you are doing to be there for him when he needs you.
Tease him and flirt. He might be shy but he isn’t the Virgin female that represents his zodiac sign. So, appease to his sexuality. Tease him with photos and messages. And don’t stop flirting just because you are together now.
Ask for his help. People love helping out others. It makes them feel good about themselves. Till you are fair with your demands. Let him help you out so that h feels like you depend on him. This makes him feel loved and more reliable.
Author and Astrologer
For nearly 15 years now, I have been writing about the mysteries of the zodiac signs, their characteristics and personality traits, their compatibility, their relationships and their passionate loves, with all the beauty but also all the complexity this can entail.