What to Do When a Libra Man Ignores You?
It’s childish to ignore someone rather than working things out, right? And one wouldn’t give two thoughts about it if someone else was ignoring them. But when a Libra man does it, it becomes difficult to avoid. People born under the Libra zodiac sign are known for their forgiving and loving nature. They are too mature to resort to things like ignoring someone, being cold or acting distant all of a sudden. So, if he is ignoring you, there must be a reason to give some thought to the matter. Don't panic, this is not an emergency yet.
Here is what to do when a Libra man ignores you and starts acting distant!
My Libra man is ignoring me suddenly: What does it mean?
If you are wondering why your Libra man is suddenly ignoring you and what it means, you will find the answers in a bit. A lot of his behavior depends on what stage in the relationship you are in.
If you are not in a relationship yet, he could be ignoring you because he’s not sure what he wants. He probably hasn’t made up his mind about whether he wants a relationship or not. Or whether he likes you that way or not. And Libra’s take a very long time to decide.
Another reason could be that he isn’t interested in you. And he doesn't want to lead you. Which is why he would much rather just ignore you so that you don't get your hopes up. In either case, the best you can do is give him his space. If it is bothering you too much to let it be, try talking to him about it. But in a very non-confrontational manner. If you are in a relationship, his reasons will be different.
Maybe you have done a grave injustice to him. Always remember that these are very fair human beings. Anything remotely unjust sets them off. But he will give you hints and chances to redeem yourself before ignoring you. Have you not been picking up on his hints?
He might just be stressed. When Libras are stressed, they tend to internalize it a lot. That, in their mind, is the best way to not let their frustrations affect others. Figure out if there’s anything that’s keeping him preoccupied.
The worst-case scenario is that maybe your Libra man is done with you. This in his eyes is an injustice he is doing to you. Which is why rather than breaking it up directly, he has chosen to ignore you instead.
How to deal with a Libra man when he becomes distant?
What to do when a Libra man pulls away? When a Libra man goes quiet and silent or becomes distant, this is the best thing to do:
Give him his space. If you want to get through to him, you have to learn what to do when a Libra man ignores you. Patience is the key to your entire strategy.
No matter how you feel don’t become confrontational or dramatic. He doesn't respond well to over the top displays of emotions. This doesn't mean that you become a statue of stone. Show your emotions, but not in a way that makes him feel guilty.
Try talking to him about your concerns. He’s a mature guy, he knows how to deal with things. So, simply talking about his altered behavior will help too. Make sure you are honest, respectful, clear and polite. Throwing accusations around won’t help.
Show him that you still love him. He needs to know that your feelings remain unchanged. And that your love for him is greater than any disagreement. So, don’t grow cold towards him just because he is ignoring you.
Get him to see how much this is affecting you. Maybe he doesn’t even know how painful this entire experience is to you. So, talk to him about that too. Tell him how his actions are hurting you. And that all you want is to sit down and clear things up. He will not ignore a reasonable request.
My Libra man stopped texting me: What should I do?
Here is another complain you often hear from women who are dating Libra men, “My Libra man is ignoring my texts!”. Well, if he’s ignoring you or stops talking to you, then not responding to your texts is a natural consequence of his behavior. But here are some things you can do to get him to respond. Start with the most peaceful option.
Ask him why he hasn’t been responding to your texts lately. The best way to approach any tense situation with him is to talk it out. He is a man of justice and peace. He will never turn down an honest offer to work things out. Or to make his concerns heard.
Send him texts that you know will get a response. These may be work-related texts. Or texts about something urgent. And anything that you know he is sure to respond to. This is just a bait to get him engaged.
Now, try ending conversations on a positive and interesting note. Something like, “You know this really funny thing happened last night. But we can talk more about it some other time.”. Get him to want to know the end of this story.
Use social media to get him to notice you. We all stalk each other these days. Use that to your advantage. Post pictures of yourself out partying and having fun. It would help even more if you are doing something, he is interested in.
How do you know when a Libra man is done with you?
So, if you think that he is ignoring you because he’s done with you, be sure before you take any action. Here are some signs a Libra man is not into you.
He will not open up about why he is ignoring you. One of the reasons why he is ignoring you is that he doesn't have the guts to break up. So, he wouldn't have anything to say to you either. He would avoid this conversation altogether.
He will no longer compliment you the way he used to. he always knows the right thing to say to his lady-love. But when love is lost, his appreciation of you will be lost too. Sometimes it would feel like you don’t even exist. The Libra men can be forgetful of the people around them. But never of the people who matter to them. Has it seemed like he doesn’t even know you are around?
He will avoid spending time with you. Why would he want to be around you if he doesn’t even notice you anymore? This will show in his actions and his behavior over and over again. He will stay out with his friends. Or always have an excuse to get out of things with you.
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For nearly 15 years now, I have been writing about the mysteries of the zodiac signs, their characteristics and personality traits, their compatibility, their relationships and their passionate loves, with all the beauty but also all the complexity this can entail.