What Happens When You Hurt a Libra Woman?
Libra women strive to bring balance and harmony in their relationships. She would prefer being in love rather than being a total loner. How does a Libra woman handle breakup? Will she move on quickly? What could you expect when a Libra woman is done with you? What does it mean when a Libra woman ignores you or stops texting? Will a Libra woman ever get over her ex?
Here is what happens when you hurt a Libra woman and a few things you should know about her when she is no longer interested in you:
How does a Libra woman act when she is hurt?
She will remain aloof for sometime giving off an air that she is unapproachable. When the Libra woman is angry or upset, she could have difficulty processing the fact that she has been betrayed.
Libra women don't like the feeling of confronting others, especially because they like to avoid all conflicts and pain. So, when she thinks she is unfairly treated, she’ll ignore you and withdraw for sometime.
While she is diplomatic, she needs to trust the people she loves and cares about. She will get bitter for some time unless she heals from the rude shock of being cheated or heartbroken.
Do Libra hold grudges?
Libra women will definitely hold a grudge against you for a very long time. They may not be very forgiving and even though they may try and normalize their relationship with you, they will never forget if you did them some wrong.
The women born under the Libra Zodiac sign are very kind and gentle beings. Despite their active social personality, they will try to bring back peace into their life by making some adjustments and compromises with those who hurt them.
How do you apologize to a Libra woman?
Handle Libra women with great tact and diplomacy because they are very logical. They see through the double standards of people despite the fact that they may not openly put across their resentment looking at the bigger picture or the greater good.
Avoid being aggressive around Libra women. Being Venus ruled, they are classy and expect to be treated with great love and respect. If you are honest and sincere, the Libra woman may forgive you.
Have your facts ready before you present your case and resolve your conflict with the Libra woman. She has good communication skills so she will probe you unless she has had the answer she was looking for. It's better to be outright honest with the Libra female if you wish to be in her good books.
When a Libra woman is silent, she is looking for ways to escape your company. Being air signs, they can adapt and adjust. So, this means that you could have a second chance with them if they are attached to you and have spent years building the bond that they share with you and value.
Do Libras move on quickly?
Libra women are known for being great flirts and charmers. They can easily impress others with their beauty, grace and intellect. They are creative and have the talent to win people's hearts with their generosity and ability to maintain friendships for a very long time. Thus, it is sacrifice, amicable behavior and an acute sense of balance that helps woo someone eventually and move on pretty quick.
Libra women need to feel secure and stable in their relationships or they could lose interest in their lover in no time. They could be madly in love with someone but if they feel lied to or cheated in any manner, they will look out for the possibilities of an exit if it serves them well. Libras are always able to make new connections and adept at finding a partner. They cannot be lonely so, unless they find the right match for themselves, they’ll continue with their search.
When they have found the "right" partner and are forced to break up, they could have real trouble managing their emotions. They'll find themselves scattered all over the place, unable to make any sense of the way forward. Nonetheless, because of their amicable approach towards all, they’ll try and part ways on good terms. So, despite the chaos they will maintain balance and keep all chaos at bay no matter the intensity of emotional pain it causes them.
How do you know when a Libra woman is over you and how does she break up?
When the Libra woman is over you, notice how active their social life gets all of a sudden. They are generally gregarious but there will be an unusual spike in their social contacts just because they are on the hunt for someone better. Promiscuity may be a dominant pattern if and when they are done with the relationship for good.
When the Libra woman feels the need to part ways with you, she’ll be rude. Or she will make sure she drives home her real feelings in a cold manner to you. While air signs do not hold on to their anger for a very long time, negativity in their lives is not something they would appreciate or be ever in a position to tolerate forever.
This does not mean that they are typical escapists but they like to keep their lives simple and stress-free. So, if you have been on her nerves for quite a while, don't be fooled by her patience and grace but a swift exit could be on the cards at the most unexpected time.
She may never initiate a breakup unless there is absolute necessity for it because she understands the value of a healthy partnership. As a Venus ruled sign, Librans have great awareness for how relationships are meant to function and what constitutes a good relationship.
It is this awareness that often acts as a curse, because they could be struggling to balance between their own understanding of love and life and that of their partner. So, she may not block you totally from her life but expect Libras to maintain friendships with their exes ever after a bitter separation.
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For nearly 15 years now, I have been writing about the mysteries of the zodiac signs, their characteristics and personality traits, their compatibility, their relationships and their passionate loves, with all the beauty but also all the complexity this can entail.