How to know when a Scorpio man is done with you? 8 Signs!
Breakups are hard. A lot of times, I hear my friends saying, “If only I had known sooner...”. the things they could have done if they only knew what was coming. Maybe even saved their relationship from ending the way it did. Or not have let go of an opportunity they did because they wanted to be with their boyfriend. I think we can all agree with the fact that it is better to know what’s coming in your relationship before it happens. If you are dating a Scorpio, it can be a little difficult to know where his mind is, right?
And so, to help you out with your dilemma, here is how to know when a Scorpio man is done with you, as well as a few secrets astrology can reveal us about his personality!
1. He will start putting distance between the two of you
It always starts with him growing cold towards you and getting distant. This is just one of the signs a Scorpio man has lost interest and doesn't like you anymore. Now there are many ways in which he will do this. You will stop getting texts and calls. He will take his own sweet time before responding to your texts. And might reply only if there’s an emergency. He will spend less and less time with you. There is also the possibility that he is swept up in work because of which you are seeing this behavior. Or there might be something else worrying him. Try to figure out if this new behavior is because of an external cause, or look for the next signs.
2. He’s growing mean and rude
When the Scorpio male wants to break up, he can get unbelievably evil. Haven’t you heard of the Scorpion’s sting? Now, the Scorpio guy will never hurt someone he loves. So, if he’s trying to hurt you and make you sad, then that indicates something. He wants you to leave before he needs to break the news to you. These aren’t unintentional slights. Also, they will be more frequent than an unintended slight. He will use your weaknesses against you to make you feel miserable. Does he burst into a fit at the smallest of provocations? You might want to look into this behavior.
3. There is no intimacy anymore
The Scorpio is one of the most virile signs in the zodiac. Physical intimacy is very important for them in a relationship. Do you notice that taking a hit lately? He either isn’t initiating or isn’t interested in sex anymore. Or even when you do it, he just doesn’t really seem into it. These are all signs of the Scorpio man trying to avoid someone for whom he doesn’t feel anything. Do you find him engaging with porn more than usual? That’s him looking for outlets for his pent-up need for sex. But why isn’t he just turning to the sexual life he has with you? I guess you already know the answer to this one.
4. He is being dishonest and secretive
The men born under the Scorpio zodiac sign aren’t good liars. It is very easy to catch a Scorpio guy in a lie. And they always have a tell. Is he looking away when he’s talking to you? Or fidgeting when you confront him with a question? But what is the point in lying? From where is this need arising, is the real question. Apart from dishonesty, there will also be the secrecy. You will begin to feel that he’s keeping things from you. Things about his life that he would have otherwise told you, he doesn’t anymore. And even when you try to be a part of his life, he will just avoid answering your inquiry.
5. You no longer feel like a part of his life
Now, I know Scorpios aren’t the kind of people who will sync their life with yours. There is always some element of privacy in them. But still, it’s not like you don’t know what’s going on with him. But increasingly, he is making you feel like an outsider. Someone who doesn’t need to be concerned with his affairs. You are not aware of where he is going or what he will be up to. And you find out more from his social media or his friends than you do from him. You feel like you don’t even know who he is anymore. Does this describe how you feel with him these days? Then you really need to start assessing your relationship.
6. He will do anything to avoid you
If the two of you are living together, you will stop seeing him at home. He will start spending the nights at his friends, at the office or anywhere away from you. Or even when he comes home it is only to go to sleep. His days will as it is spent elsewhere. Tried planning something with him? A date night? A movie night? Or anything fun just to spend some time? he would come up with the craziest of excuses. Even say that he is doing things that you know he hates. Or if he is one of the poisonous Scorpions, then he would give you weird excuses like, “I’m playing video games, can’t come over”. Or “I have classes in the evening”. You will know he’s just trying to avoid you.
7. He’s sharing his doubts about the future of your relationship
He will start wondering if you guys have anything in common. You will just start hearing things you wouldn't from someone in love. That's just him bouncing hints off of you so that when he breaks up with you, you are prepared. Remember? He isn't a guy who is a big fan of drama. He will point out how you guys have nothing in common. Or often think out loud when he is thinking about the future. And air concerns like whether you see the relationship going long term. There will be a lot of negativity from his side regarding the future. Or at least the way he approaches the relationship will be filled with doubt.
8. He’ll suggest taking a break
For all their ability to be direct, the Scorpio men aren't good at breaking hearts. So, instead, he will tell you that he needs some time off. Now, allow me to give you a tip. No guy, who suggests going on a break, is ever coming back to you. Asking for a break is just a polite way of breaking up. So, whenever he says that maybe you two should give it a break, you should break up for good. The least he can do is be a man and be clean in ending things. If he can't even grace you with that respect, then you need to be the one to put an end. And, as I say to all my friends, there is plenty of fish in the sea.
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For nearly 15 years now, I have been writing about the mysteries of the zodiac signs, their characteristics and personality traits, their compatibility, their relationships and their passionate loves, with all the beauty but also all the complexity this can entail.