10 Things a Scorpio Woman Likes and Dislikes in a Man
It is a tricky business, falling in love with a Scorpio woman. One wrong move and you will end up making an enemy for life. But that's not what we want, is it? You want to impress your Scorpio crush. To do that, you must know what melts her heart, and what ticks her off. And mind you, these Scorpios can be very picky. So, how do you reach the gates that lead to her heart? You need to know the Scorpio woman’s likes and dislikes.
Here are 10 things a Scorpio woman likes and dislikes in a man!
What does a Scorpio woman like in a man?
Her checklist for her ideal man is long. Long. But there are a few standard criteria that you have to meet to attract and woo a Scorpio woman.
1. Honesty and openness
She doesn't even befriend people who aren't truthful. The Scorpio zodiac sign has a hard time trusting anyone. The walls around their heart are so huge that it can be seen from the moon (just kidding!). You get the idea. Therefore, if you want her to lower her guard around you, be honest with her. Don't hide your true feelings from her. Find a way to share criticism in a constructive manner which doesn't offend her. But whatever you do, never break her trust. She won't give you a second chance with that.
2. Don’t be intimidated by her rugged behavior
She's not your timid, girl-next-door type. She's a little tomboyish. In the sense that she won't "sit still, look pretty". She is wild, she is upfront. She can be rude too at times, especially when she's being brutally honest. And you cannot avoid an argument or a fight with her. But whatever she does, don't make her feel any less feminine. Don't criticize her personality. Learn to deal with her when it seems like she's acting immature. Give her the understanding that she deserves. Hear her out before reacting to anything.
3. Intellect and wit matter
Just look at her group of friends. Like really analyze them. They might seem like average people on the surface, but all of them have a story to tell. All of them have the wisdom to share. She will never be friends with people who don't have any value to add to this world. And she will not love someone like that. Being smart is important to her, so, she surrounds herself with people who stimulate her intellect. Engage her in meaningful conversations. Keep an open mind during debates. Don’t get angry when you have a difference in opinion.
4. Be the rock that she can depend on
She rarely needs anyone's support. All the Scorpio women whom I have met are stronger than steel. But now and then, everyone wishes for some support. When you become the person everyone depends on, you wish for someone whom you can rely on. That's where you can come in. Gain her trust and confidence. Be there for her whenever she needs you. And do this without expecting anything in return. Only if you can give her unconditional support will you find a place in her heart. And don't worry, Scorpio women rarely take people like that for granted.
5. A little mystery and tease would pique her interest
She might be a little tomboyish but don’t forget that deep down she too is a damsel. Maybe not in distress, but one that likes to be wooed all the same. So, don’t be an open book. There’s a difference between being open and telling her your life story. It won’t hurt to let a little mystery surround your personality. Tease her, flirt with her. But only with her. If you give the same treatment to someone else, she will huff and puff and blow you away.
What does a Scorpio woman hate in a man?
This list is longer than the previous one. But due to the paucity of time, I'm only going to mention the top 5 things that a Scorpio woman dislikes in a man. Under no circumstance should you engage in any behavior that is on this list. Or she will sting you to thousand deaths.
1. Disrespect of women and people who are underprivileged
One of my best friends is a Scorpio female. She broke up with a boyfriend because he said something disrespectful about his mother. Not her, not her mother, but his mother. Yet, the fact that he couldn't respect a woman was enough to put her off. The women born under the Scorpio Zodiac sign are extremely empathetic. Especially when they have gone through the same thing as someone else. Being a woman, she has suffered from male ignorance. She will not suffer it.
2. Never mansplain things to her
If she cannot stand disrespect, she will certainly not stand to mansplain. Well, here's the thing gentlemen. By mansplaining things to a woman, you are questioning her intelligence. And I can guarantee you that the Scorpio girl, knows more than you do. If you feel that she isn't understanding your point, try to understand her to take on it first. Then explain why you feel different. But never take a condescending tone with her. She might not know all things, but she can learn.
3. Men who aren’t groomed well
The Scorpio female isn’t one who cares about looks. She will judge a man by his brain and not by his face. Yet, what you wear and how you wear it is a part of your personality. And how you choose to groom yourself shows how seriously you take life. It doesn’t matter whether you wear branded clothes or not. What matters is that you look good in what you wear. So, dress to impress this woman. She cannot care for people who don’t realize how important dressing is.
4. Men who flirt around
If you are a serial flirt who has fallen in love with a Scorpio woman, you have two options. You either change your behavior and dedicate your efforts to her. Or you forget her and find someone else. This woman will not put up with a man who cannot stay true to her. she sees even harmless flirtations as disloyalty. She doesn't want to get into a pissing contest with another woman. And believe me, you don't want to deal with her when she gets jealous. So, in the interest of both her and you, you should choose one of the aforementioned options.
5. Don’t play too hard to get
Sure, she won't mind playing the game for a while. Let her feel that she has to work for your affections. If you give her everything easily, she will take you for granted. But don't take it too far. She only has so much patience. And her anger is legendary. If she feels like she's doing all the work while you are acting all snobbish, she will back out. Balance is the key to this woman. Every act needs balance and rationality. If you are unable to be the mature one most of the time, you won't stay with her for long. And she'll be the one to walk out on you. Believe me!
Author and Astrologer
For nearly 15 years now, I have been writing about the mysteries of the zodiac signs, their characteristics and personality traits, their compatibility, their relationships and their passionate loves, with all the beauty but also all the complexity this can entail.